infidelity therapy

  1. Is It Possible To Save a Marriage After an Affair?

    By:
    Date Published:
    Categories:
    , , , , , , ,
    Tags:
    , ,

    Originally published in the Lakelands Leader in our advice column the Laudable Life  Q: Last month I learned of my spouse’s long-term affair. It's over now and she's extremely remorseful. What in your experience, is a reasonable outcome for me to expect when I'm on the other side of this? Acceptance but continued hurt from it?  Something that we can expect to always have to deal with on some l…Read More

  2. Why You Should Be Ready to Confess Your Affair When Asked

    By:
    Date Published:
    Categories:
    , , , , ,
    Tags:
    , , , , ,

    Should you tell your partner about the affair you've had? If you ask a philosophy professor they will likely give you an ethical decision making theory like in this article from Psychology Today. But philosophers work in theory, they don't work with people in crisis. On the other hand, if you ask 100 couples therapists, "Should your client tell their partner about an infidelity or affair?" you mi…Read More

  3. My Husband Has Been Using The Ashley Madison Website

    By:
    Date Published:
    Categories:
    , , , , , , , , , ,
    Tags:
    , , ,

    Originally published by The Lakelands Leader in our Laudable Life advice column. Q: Last night I found out my husband has been using the Ashley Madison website.  We’ve been married for nine years, happily I thought, and we have three kids.   I’m shocked, devastated, and confused.  I don’t know what to do, yet I feel an urgent need to do something.  I feel like my head is exploding.  He…Read More